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Why Am I So Hard on Myself? Self-Discipline vs. Self-Compassion

Why Am I So Hard on Myself? Self-Discipline vs. Self-Compassionby: Kellie MurryPublished on: 22/09/2026

Struggling to know whether you need more discipline or more self-compassion? Learn how rest, avoidance, feelings, values, and self-trust can help you decide what you actually need.

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Why Am I So Hard on Myself? Self-Discipline vs. Self-Compassion